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The Wellthy Mama

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5 TIPS TO HELP YOU TAKE BETTER PHOTOS OF YOURSELF

September 28, 2020 · In: Nurture

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I finally did it, y’all. I put on makeup, got dressed and actually did a photo shoot for myself. Now you know (cause I’ve told you) that I am super shy and nervous in front of the camera. I enjoy photography but much prefer to take pictures of others. If I’m going to keep blogging and posting photos on instagram, ya girl is going to have to get over her fear of being in front of the lens.

Take Photos to Boost Your Confidence

I was planning on starting a new blog series when I heard a voice asking me why I was hiding. No. It wasn’t Steve. I checked. It was my inner voice reminding me that this season of my life is about being bold and free. Putting aside what other people are going to think and asking myself what it is I want to do. Seriously, I am so tired of being self-conscious. Have you ever just been over yourself? Like, how long are you going to have this problem, girl? That’s how I was feeling. I preach the value of lifting up others but I need to start practicing my sermons on myself.

The last thing I want to to keep feeling like I can’t and then pass that onto my children. I want them to see me fly and to have the courage to do the same. I know this is just pictures we’re talking about but we all have those doubts that are holding us back. Well, I took one more step today towards the real me.

Me, myself and I had fun in my backyard being creative and silly. My neighbors probably think I’m crazy but they better get used to it cause this girl is ready to go again. I will get comfortable in this skin of mine. I mean, nobody else can do it for me. I’m ready to love myself the way I should and let go of all the crap I’ve been telling myself my whole life. I know it’s a journey but I am super proud of myself for starting it. Here are a few tips to take great pics with your smartphone.

Mobile Phone Selfie Tips
  1. Get a tripod. I purchased this one from amazon and it comes with an attachment for a cell phone and a bluetooth remote. It can be used on a table top or extends up to about 5 feet for standing shots.
  2. Express yourself. You are the director, producer and photographer so wear whatever makes you feel like the best you that day. There is no one to tell you that skirt doesn’t match those shoes. If you’re colorblind, you may want to secure some assistance, though!
  3. Understand lighting. I recommend checking out a few youtube so you have an idea of where to shoot (in the shade on a sunny day) and how to position yourself with respect to the sun (if indoors, try taking photos facing the window).
  4. Bring some tunes. If this is your first time taking photos of yourself, it will feel ridiculous and you probably will be a bit stiff. Music helps you relax and provides the right vibe depending on if you’re going for a natural or fierce look.
  5. Get a good editing app. I personally use VSCO but I have heard good things about Lightroom and Snapseed so you have options.

So, we have our tips and no more excuses. What are you telling yourself that you need to stop today? This goes out to all the mothers who have slowly taken themselves out of pictures because they are the ones capturing the moments. Comb your hair, put a little sumpin’ sumpin’ on and flaunt your stuff girl. Your husband and kids will love having those memories of your confidence and you deserve to live them. Now, go strike a pose!

By: Melissa Β· In: Nurture Β· Tagged: advice, confidence, fear, moms, photograpy

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  1. `Allison says

    September 28, 2020 at 11:48 am

    You AND your photos are absolutely gorgeous! Love the colors, angles, lighting, and filter – I’m impressed! I’m also loving all the variety in your blog posts πŸ™‚

    • mellow0402 says

      September 28, 2020 at 11:58 am

      Coming from such an amazing designer, that makes me feel so good. Thanks for the feedback too. Not always sure if it’s too much variety. I really do appreciate you taking the time to read an comment!

  2. Allena Clifford says

    September 28, 2020 at 2:30 pm

    Yessss!!!!πŸ™ŒπŸΎπŸ™ŒπŸΎπŸ™ŒπŸΎπŸ™ŒπŸΎ I see you Queen!

    • mellow0402 says

      September 28, 2020 at 2:33 pm

      Hahahaha. Thanks, Allena. I wanna see you too!!!

  3. Ambi G. says

    September 28, 2020 at 2:33 pm

    Mellowe me and you are in the same boat! This came at the right time when I was began slowly talking myself into the background again. Thanks for this gentle reminder to get out front!

    • mellow0402 says

      September 28, 2020 at 2:34 pm

      You are too fierce to be in the background, girl. World watch out!

  4. Karletta Marie says

    September 29, 2020 at 1:33 pm

    Your photographs are absolutely beautiful. I look forward to seeing more from you. Love this tip “Bring some tunes” … great idea – I’m going to try this.

    • mellow0402 says

      September 29, 2020 at 1:49 pm

      Aww. Thank you so much. The music really helps you get out of your head which I 100% need. Can’t wait to see your pics!

  5. Renata says

    September 30, 2020 at 3:34 pm

    I’m like you – shy and insecure in front of the camera. Nevertheless, I’d like to have some pix of myself from time to time. Therefore, I’m really grateful for your tips – especially since I’m a solo-traveller and depend on selfies πŸ˜‰

    • mellow0402 says

      September 30, 2020 at 10:38 pm

      Renata, it makes me so happy to hear you’re going to try. Have fun with it especially since you’re in countries where people don’t know you! πŸ˜‰

  6. Christy Little Jones says

    October 6, 2020 at 1:25 am

    Your pictures are beautiful! You are simply stunning. Your Boog spoke directly to my own hiding and I, too am tired of believing the same ole lies once and for all! Thank you for your transparency and willingness to start! It encourages others to do the same!

    • mellow0402 says

      October 6, 2020 at 4:45 pm

      Christy, you are so kind. Thank you. It’s time for us to step out and shine as brightly as we were made to do so!

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